Thank you for contacting me - the Love
Doctor on Enter Chat Room. Our condolences to you regarding your
Father's passing. Please log on to the chat room often and meet new
friends online to chat your heart out - we hope it will help.
Now Ramya, I'm going to be very honest
with you, even though you might find some of my answers as rude and
harsh it is the truth. If you've been reading my love advice, you know
by now that I'm not the pampering type.
Ramya, people don't talk affectionately to
friends especially when they are in a relationship. It was wrong to
propose to him knowing very well he had a girlfriend, and he was an
idiot to tell you to give him time to think about it. He should have
said no, but he was already sweet talking with you so he had a
thing for you too.
Then your Dad moved on. A true friend can
console you without getting into your underwear. You were in a state of
shock and depression and your best took advantage of you - period. He
betrayed the trust you had for him as a best friend when he kissed you.
Now that he has what wants he wants to move on with his old girlfriend?
Does his girlfriend knows he was dating you? If she did and have
accepted him back after months of rocking with you then she is equally
stupid as her boyfriend. Birds of the same feather flock together isn't
it. People in Ghana have a saying that "love makes people do foolish
things" and the three of you just confirms that. Sorry for being harsh
on you, but that's my style.
And what in the world does he mean by he
don't want you to loose your career because of him. Do you work for his
So you're in the same class? No problem
girl. Just be polite and nice to him in class and avoid him after. No
one can hurt you mentally unless you give them the chance. Make yourself
happy. And remember you cannot be best friends otherwise he'll continue
kissing anytime you fail an exam, dump you weeks later and say I was
just consoling you. Get back to him by studying hard an excelling in
your classes more than him. With time you will find true love again and
gradually forget about him.
To everyone else, do not date someone in
your class, work, neighborhood or place of worship. Things get
difficult when there is a break up.
Your one and only love Doctor.